Karen Milne: Volunteer Fundraising Powerhouse

 

Here’s how it all started.

Karen’s friend and former boss placed a call to her good friend, former Be The Match president Christine Fleming. “Find this woman something to do!” she said. Karen had retired from a Minneapolis law firm on December 31, 2012, where she’d been a legal assistant. She’d made good friends in her 31-year career there, but her favorite part of the job had always been organizing the firm’s social events and charity fundraisers. For those first few months after retirement, the newly inactive Karen felt a bit adrift.

“I read more books than you’d think possible,” Karen jokes, “and bothered my friends to the point that I think they were happy for Caller ID.”

Clearly, Karen—and her friends—were ready for her to move on to the next chapter. Three days later, Karen Milne found herself in the offices of Be The Match, where she was recruited to work on the silent auction for the annual gala. Three months after that Karen was asked to chair the event. She’s served in that role since 2013.

BLAZING NEW TRAILS

That next chapter has proven to be a happy one for Be The Match and for Karen. Along with raising money, it’s the challenge and sociability of acquiring silent auction items that most appeals to her. To that end, Karen, whose soft-spoken demeanor masks a very determined spirit, often teams up with her good friend and fellow volunteer Michelle Vance to scout out new donations. “Michelle’s very outgoing,” says Karen. “It’s fun to go to new places together and see what kinds of reactions we get—most often, we get the job done.”

Finding items for BTM’s silent auction is a matter of being aware of your surroundings, businesses in particular, and thinking about what people might like to bid on. In fact, says Karen with a smile, “My family got tired of going places with me because I was always ‘scanning the horizon’ for new opportunities.”

In their brainstorming and horizon-scanning, Karen and her silent auction committee have discovered how popular experience packages have become. Everyone expects there to be an array of great items, she notes, but experiences are often unique and surprising, prompting people to bid on them.

For instance, using their connections, the committee put together a “first pitch” experience with the Minnesota Twins, as well as an opportunity to “come out of the tunnel” with the University of Minnesota football team. Working the the Plymouth fire department, they arranged a “Day in the Life of a Firefighter” experience for several lucky kids. “That was very popular,” says Karen.

The 2015 silent auction featured 200-plus items and experiences, and raised $35,000. “Of course, next year we want to do even better,” says Karen.

 

A NATURAL VOLUNTEER

Karen’s dedication to volunteering has deep roots. In her hometown of Rolla, North Dakota, her parents were consummate volunteers. “My dad was president or chair of everything in town, mom too,” Karen remembers. “They taught us that giving back enriches your life as well as the lives of those you’re helping.”

Along with her work for Be The Match, the mother of three and grandmother of eight also chairs events for other Twin Cities’ organizations, and substitute-teaches with the Robbinsdale school district. The flexibility of working when she wants to gives her more time for the charity activities that draw her to them.

 

WHY I VOLUNTEER

“I’m not the kind of person to sit around—maybe someday but not now,” says Karen. “Working with Be The Match fills up my time, and my heart.”

Living Life with a Song

It was a third bout with cancer that brought New Yorker Rima Starr to the doorstep of Be The Match.

Volunteer and transplant recipient Rima Starr
Volunteer and transplant recipient Rima Starr

Rima, a professional singer and certified music therapist, has a lifelong love of music. During her noteworthy music career, she performed with the national tour of “The Sound of Music” and even sang with Pavarotti under Leonard Bernstein and the New York Philharmonic at Lincoln Center. As hospice music therapist at Beth Israel Hospital for 17 years, Rima soothed patients and families with her gentle music and compassion.

In recent years, though, she had begun to feel like her new role in life was “cancer patient.” After five years of battling endometrial cancer and lymphoma, she’d just started to feel like her old self when she got the latest news: this time, the cancer was AML—Acute Myeloid Leukemia.

Her only treatment option, the doctors said, was a bone marrow transplant. The doctors described it in harrowing terms, presenting the worst-case scenario. Without the transplant, they gave Rima little hope, predicting that she had only nine months to live.

“I asked, What kind of choice is that?” Rima recalls. Considering the difficult side effects she’d been led to expect, she decided to take the nine months. But her husband, Len Weiss, had a different idea. “He said NO, you can do it,” Rima says emphatically. “He helped me opt for life.”

GOOD NEWS

Rima was pleased to discover that her recovery from the transplant was not at all like she expected. “I didn’t even throw up,” she says. “In spite of some mouth sores, I never stopped eating—I even gained weight!” From her experience, she realized that there was a much broader spectrum of reactions to treatment than she’d been told.

One day during her recovery, Rima took to the hospital hallways, dragging her IV at her side. As she walked, her irrepressible love of music bubbled to the surface. She began to sing. And as it had during her days as a singer and music therapist, her singing drew others to her.

“Patients and even staff started to sing along with me,” Rima remembers. “As we sang, I realized how good it felt to be giving again. The emphasis was no longer on our illness, but on our strength.”
A POSITIVE NEW ROLE

That was more than three years ago. With her recovery behind her, Rima decided to volunteer with a Be The Match team that phone-counsels people who are considering bone marrow transplants. “These people have a hard decision to make. I wanted to share my story and give them the hope and perspective that only another transplant patient can provide.”

Because music was so powerful in her own healing, Rima brings it into her volunteer work whenever she can. She remembers easing the fears of one woman whose native country was Italy. They talked, they got acquainted; they finished their conversation by softly singing “Santa Lucia” together.

“It’s not all about the big things and the training,” Rima says. “Often, it’s the smallest things and a personal connection that can help people.”
WHY I VOLUNTEER

“It feels so good to help others go through the exact process I went through,” says Rima. “I feel so grateful for getting through this, I just want to pass it on.”

Transplant patient uses his talent for film to create “Good Blood”

Kevin McDevitt and his wife Stephanie take a light-hearted approach to encouraging more people to join the bone marrow registry. Kevin created the music video “Good Blood” as a parody of Taylor Swift’s Bad Blood. The video includes how easy it is to become a donor at Be the Match. Being a bone marrow recipient himself, he wanted to show that he not only beat Aplastic Anemia but was able to express what he went through jokes, laughs and making people smile. Kevin also hopes that this film creates awareness for Be the Match to help get new registered donors.

Walk + Run: An Easy, Fun Way to Make a Big Difference 

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One of the best and most fun ways you can support Be The Match is by volunteering at a Walk + Run event in your area. When you volunteer at a Walk + Run event, you will know that your contribution makes a critical difference to the organization’s success. These events provide the main source of funding for Be The Match outside of individual donors.

The money raised at Be the Match Walk + Run events goes directly to the organization’s life-saving mission. The funds grow the donor registry, help transplant patients with uninsured costs, and support continued transplant research.

Be the Match has two Walk + Run events coming up that still need volunteers, one in Philadelphia on Saturday, April 18, and another in Atlanta on Saturday, April 25. If you’re interested in volunteering, you can sign up through the volunteer website and indicate the different areas you would like to work in. These include set up, registration, refreshments, course marshal, start and finish lines, water stop and breakdown.

Be the Match needs about 100-125 volunteers at each event to make it a success for participants. Shifts vary from 5:30AM to 12:00PM. Volunteers choose the length of their shifts, ranging from two to six hours. Volunteers  have responded to their Walk +Run experiences very positively. One volunteer said, “All of the organizers worked to make me feel like I was doing more than just volunteering. They made me feel like part of their team.” Another said, “It was even better than I expected. I had a lot of fun and I’m going to try and volunteer for other events!”

Volunteering is not only an opportunity to help Be the Match; it’s also an opportunity to enjoy a fun morning. Volunteers can sign up as a group or family and organizers will keep them together. The Walk + Runs also attract many youth volunteers and of course each volunteer receives a free Walk + Run t-shirt designed for their area’s event.

Upcoming Walk + Run events with urgent need for volunteers:

Be the Match Walk + Run Philadelphia
Saturday, April 18, 2015

The Navy Yard
4500 S. Broad Street
Philadelphia, PA 19112

Contact: Colleen Bailey
Bethematchwr.philadelphia@nmdp.org

 

Be the Match Walk + Run Atlanta
Saturday, April 25, 2015

Atlantic Station, Central Park
245 18th Street
Atlanta, GA 30363

Contact: Latres Bell, Volunteer Chair
Bethematchwr.atlanta@nmdp.org

For more information about Be the Match Walk + Run events, contact Lisa Munson at lisa.munson@nmdp.org

Be The Match on Campus Alum Wins Presidential Volunteer Award

In 2010, Eric Croucher was a nursing student at James Madison University (JMU) when he and his Sigma Phi Epsilon fraternity brothers started a Be The Match On Campus chapter in an effort to help his best friend, Ryan, recently diagnosed with leukemia.

As part of their efforts, Eric and his fraternity brothers started a fundraiser called Flight Against Leukemia where they raised money by taking attendees up on short airplane rides, selling aerial photographs and hosting a drawing for sky diving. In addition to fundraising, Eric volunteered at Be The Match Walk+Run events and local donor drives.

Along with helping Be the Match in the public, Eric was a featured speaker at the Be The Match On Campus annual Summit conference in Minneapolis. This is a yearly conference where presidents of each chapter come together and share best practices before the school year begins.

With years of dedicated service to Be the Match, Eric was awarded a Points of Light Presidential Award for Volunteerism. President George Bush Sr. started Points of Light as a national network to mobilize volunteers, and this award recognizes exceptional volunteerism.

As part of this honor, Be The Match Chief Executive Officer Dr. Chell presented the award to Eric at a Legislative Day dinner on March 2nd in Washington D.C. “Eric’s passion for our life-saving mission is amazing,” he said. “His long-term commitment to the cause honors his friend Ryan and inspires us all to deliver on the promise of blood and marrow transplantation.”

While Eric himself said he is excited and humbled by the national recognition, he is proud that his relationship with Be The Match is in honor of his best friend who was in need of a bone marrow transplant. “Ryan said to me, ‘I have leukemia,”’ Eric said. “I was silent at first, and then I said, ‘What can I do to help?’”

When he connected with Be The Match at a local donor drive, Eric said he quickly realized that partnering with our organization was the best way he could help his friend. “Joining Be The Match On Campus helped me learn more about bone marrow transplants so I could grow my chapter and educate others about blood cancers,” Eric said.

Today Eric works as a registered nurse at Johns Hopkins Hospital bone marrow transplant unit and regularly works at area donor drives for Be The Match. His passion for the program has stayed in the family with his younger sister, Corinne, now serving as the president of the JMU Be The Match On Campus chapter.

As he continues his volunteer efforts, Eric said the recognition will be a lifelong reminder of a great opportunity. “It doesn’t feel like I am going out of my way – I am just doing the right thing,” he said. “I am truly grateful for the opportunity to join the fight against blood cancers.”

To volunteer at a local drive like Eric, check out our volunteer calendar or a listed  ongoing opportunity on our volunteer website.